But then it dawned on me. Why? Why do I have to be so negative? Bad things happen. They happen to everybody. And eventually they work themselves off.
So it is time to say good bye to the negativity and start thinking in a more positive light. So it doesn't matter what 2013 puts my way, I am just gonna go ahead and Smile.
So for Music Monday's post, here is Lily Allen with Smile.
It's hard to be positive when you feel so damn negative, trust me I know. But you're right, you choose the positive and then eventually, you start to feel that way!
ReplyDeleteI foreget the exact words, but there is a saying that you are exactly what you think and you attract those same thoughts to you. So...if you think postive you'll bring more positive. :) Dunno...I think that and yeah, I still get pissed when shit happens, lol.
ReplyDeleteI also know how hard it is to stay positive, when it seems like nothing can go right. That said, I love your outlook right now and today's song is perfect. You are strong and capable and just know you will get through this all :) :)
ReplyDeleteGo Stacy! I agree with Cyndi and Julie above -- think positively and things will turn around. We tell that to our kids all the time too. Oh and great song!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you are smiling again. It's true that bad things happen to us all and I think you can allow yourself a little time to be cranky and process it all. Smile when you can! I put on music and dance around the kitchen and my kids laugh at me... Somehow it cheers me up!
ReplyDeleteMy year didn't start off as badly as yours, but it's not great. For one, I'm having my wisdom teeth pulled out today (yay....), and I have some heath thing that just won't go away. I'm thinking of cancelling a weekend away because we can't find someone to look after our cats - (my husband will never forgive me, but these girls are family and I don't want them with strangers...after all the horror stories I've read). Anyway - not as bad as yours clearly. So good to see you smile again! Missed that positive energy from you ;) We all have our bad days...but I've learnt that thinking positive will bring those things to you. As some have mentioned above. When you think bad things and it can't get worse, guess what? It usually does. It's weird that way.
ReplyDeleteA smile is the best weapon against the blues. Glad you're shaking yours off!
ReplyDeleteBelieve me, I'm fighting daily to keep a smile going. But to give up is not my thing, so it's off to positive thoughts! There's a bright sun above every rain cloud. So, we have to get our head out of the muck, stop saying ____ , and be happy when the clouds part. Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus!
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